There may come a time when we have to step in and care for aging parents. If an illness or accident strikes, the need is clear. But what if changes occur gradually to your parents' health and well-being? Will you know when to come to their aid?
Make note of shifts or new patterns in your parents' behavior, including any difficulty with mobility or changes in personal hygiene or eating habits. Be sensitive to your parents' independence, but firm in your resolve to help where and how you can. Let them know of any plans you make and ask for their input so they don't feel that you're taking over their lives. Involve siblings and other family members, too. Open communication is a must.
Take steps to educate yourself about your parents' health conditions or needs and get to know their existing support network of doctors, friends, or neighbors. Seek information about the legal and financial implications of caring for a parent.
Should you need to become more involved in your parents' care, make sure to take care of your own life, too. Early on, you should inform your employer about the changes in your life in case you need to miss work to care for your parents.